What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

What is your favorite position? Why?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Is it normal to hate my dog, but feel too guilty to get rid of him?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

Is it true that people who are possessed by demons cannot see them until the demon is cast out? What is the reason for this?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Why is it so common for married white women to have an affair with black men? Does it bother white guys?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

What does it feel like to "lose your looks" to age?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

What would it take for you to consider yourself a "Swiftie" like Flavor Flav?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

Was Michael Jackson really an innocent person?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

If yes, what?

If there exists a “New York of Australia”, is it Sydney or Melbourne?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

Why is the band Nickelback unliked so much?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

What are some best sources of great porn?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Threads is testing spoiler text, Zuckerberg says - TechCrunch

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

Democrats be honest, how many of you were wishing that Musk rescue space flight blew up?

29- How superstitious are you?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

Why is it that women are stronger than men nowadays?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

How do you write lyrics for a song that resonates with listeners?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

Why is fitness important?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

*** Random Questions ***

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

52~ What are your hobbies?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Any that are a turn off?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

Any that are a turn off?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

39~ What are your love languages?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

Family Relation Age Play

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

The Ice Breaker Questions

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

*** Questions About Me ***

Please share Did you stop?

Nothing too Serious

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

If you win, what will you make them do?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

Would you read them together?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?